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Post by workingmum22 on Mar 21, 2007 16:41:44 GMT
I have decided to take a year out to mind our new baby son who is 5 months old. But if I am honest I miss my job. Its not that I don't love being with my son but I miss the buzz of work, the chat, my customers on the phone - I am even wondering should I find a babyminder or creche and return to work earlier that I thought. My DH says he doesn't mind and that its my decision but the guilt of it is really bugging me.
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Post by behanfamily on Mar 21, 2007 16:48:43 GMT
I think this is something only you can decide - and you know that. I didnt return to work after my daughter was born in Aug 2001, but that was my choice, and I was happy about it.
Being a mum, can be lonely and you dont want to loose your identity, and if you do really want to work is parttime or jobshare an option for you?
I know lots of parents who work and those who dont - and both are happy. It is personal choice - I didnt want to return to work, and wouldnt have swopped it for anything, but there are times when I wish I had an easier job (being a mum isnt easy, and we never get A/L)
There are lots of factors to consider obviously, childcare costs, time working and commuting, and when your little boy starts school - childcare during holiday periods.
Why not make a list of pros and cons for returning to work to help make your mind up.
Good luck a tough decision for any loving mum to make.
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Post by joanne on Mar 21, 2007 17:29:24 GMT
Would have to agree with Rachel - you have a tough decision ahead of you. But it is your decision ( given that you have such wonderful support from your DH) and so whats best for you will be best for baby. There is no point in 'working' in the home out of guilt - no one benefits from that. I like Rachel's idea of making a list out of the pro's and con's - also look at your options - part-time, full time, mornings only etc etc and then listen also to what your instinct tells you. That way you will make the best decision for your family.  |
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Post by workingmum22 on Mar 24, 2007 16:32:29 GMT
Well I have made my list out - and I think deep down I would love to return to work soon. But only on a part-time basis which I hope my boss will agree to . I have even managed to ask around regarding a babyminder.
I feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders - now that I have made my decision. Thanks Joanne for getting me to listen to myself - you are right, we do know what is best for us and our families. Thanks for everyones kind support.
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Post by behanfamily on Mar 26, 2007 8:25:48 GMT
glad to know we have helped and that weight has lifted. Hope part time works out for you - it will be good for you all to have that independance and youll cherish the time with your DS more. Good luck wishing you well, let us know how things progress
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Post by noreenc on Mar 26, 2007 22:42:12 GMT
in the last year i have had to return to work for financial reasons and to my surprise have loved it. Actually I would have to say that it has kept me sane over the past 12 months. So the best of luck to you going back to work.
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